Mike - ok, need a beer right about now
So anyways. I found that keeping the sub where it was, but moved it up forward away from wall 10" and moved the sub 7" away from right side of the wall, then lowered the amp level, turned the bass boost to +3 and now this sub is clean!!
This amp is by far as Cadence told me has more power then the sub can handle.
What I did was borrow this kids BASS cd from work (young kid , around 19 yrs old and has 4- 10" XXX's in a Mitsu Eclipse and recommend me tuned my sub w/ this BASS BOY and Tech-Master PEB cd's.
Let me say.. [Wow!]!!!!! Talk about BOOM []!!
Well, here is my happy settings:
Oh I know the HZ is little high and these cds probably won't hit that range, but dang!!

Love'in it!!
Thanks for all your help