Well, I decided that I would try and let Audyssey have a go at it without any filters applied. I did turn down the sub amp some to try and keep the my peaks around my target line.
graph_amp down no eq.jpg
Here is what Audyssey did (I did about 4 locations close to where my REW mic is)
graph audy amp down.jpg
So now I crank up the amp and the sub output level on the reciever and add filters and here is the result. I am sure I could play around with the BFD more and make it better, but I also worry about other locations in the room. It is fun playing with this stuff, but after a while
. I desperately need more time and a lot more patience and
graph audy bfd amp level up.jpg
I can get what I want by not using Audyssey but I believe in it for EQing the rest of my speakers. To me there should be a better way
. Any other ideas????