Sorry it took to looooooooooong ... but I've been playing around, here is my final settings ..
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First graph is my receiver Memory 1 set up, second Memory 2 and third a comparison of both
mem 1 final.jpg mem 2 final.jpg mem 1 + mem 2 comparison.jpg
I hope I did it right this time ... Is this okay, or Do I need to improve the response (if i need to do it, I will need a BFD; I played with my receiver EQ but this is the best I can do ... maybe I'll keep trying ...
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