I understand why wide dips are a problem but it also seems that sharp dips should be significant also. The example I gave of a missing clarinet came from a real example. Before I added traps to remove first reflections, I had a song with a missing vocalist! After traps, the vocalist appears again. This seems to be the result of a narrow dip at the fundamental (or tonic) of her voice.
I'm not an acoustics expert but this seems to support the idea that narrow dips can be very important to "what you hear anyway". Any help with this is appreciated because I would prefer to smooth the curves and not worry about the narrow peaks and dips, right?
Yes, as I sure you know, the overall problem is complex and no simple statement is correct for all circumstances. I was only intending to point out that care must be taken in trying to address nulls with EQ because worse issues can easily arise.
In the larger sense, we need to keep in mind that EQ cannot address all types of problems and also that acoustic room treatments do not resolve all types of problems. They do different things but there is overlap between them also. Room size, positions of speakers and LP position and distance are also major factors. Did I mention the speakers themselves yet?
So the problem is complex and a challenge. I like to try to experiment and solve problems so it is a hobby for me. This situation is instead a significant frustration for the person that just want optimized sound with minimal effort. Everyone must choose where they fit on this spectrum (pun intended).
No good simple answers from me.
