If you want your graph to look like WinISD, then you'll need to take your sub outside to do the measurements since that's the environment that REW is predicting in. You might also see if your sub's frequency response doesn't change with output level outdoors as well....that will allow you to see what is room gain and what is the driver.
Btw, are these plots smoothed, or EQ'd? Can you post the raw responses?
Btw, are these plots smoothed, or EQ'd? Can you post the raw responses?