Let me know a while before you come and I will make a fresh pot. I love to cook but my wife is not a big fan of gumbo. She calls it "connector stew" and when I grab the turkey or chicken scraps and start boiling them for a stock she cringes. She also hates okra, which I like to use in it. Nothing like a real stock for starters, and I do my best to get (almost) all of the connectors out. She, of course, finds the ones that I miss. The boys love it, as long as I put lots of andouille in it.
Cooking sure beats shopping, IMNSHO. I send Juli and her sister shopping on Black Friday and stay home an cook.