I have no confidence that I can help. It does not help that I am not sure how to understand '95 dB'. How was that measured? Does it mean you listening above live levels?
My best guess would be that the frequency response (house curve) does not work well for your preferred; listening level, program material, etc.
The best course of action is to modify the house curve and see what impact it has. It takes time and effort, but that is the only way to satisfy yourself that that you have found the best solution for your situation.
Initially, you may want to try resetting the >300 Hz EQ at ~1m to flat or even slightly up-slope above 2 kHz. We initially set a slightly falling SPL above 2 kHz.